“Sticks and stones may break my bones…but words will NEVER hurt me”. The nursery rhyme that serves as a coping mechanism for a hurt child. However the (energetic stamp of that hurt child never goes away if not acknowledged). It exists with us sub-autonomously throughout our lives, causing us many times to self sabotage things in the most pivotal times. Typically all due to fear. There is nothing to fear but fear itself! Healing the inner child by addressing any childhood issues is key to leading a more productive happy life!